QUOTES
4/25/2020
“. . . for nudism to remain innocent, something for
families and children to enjoy, there can be no stance on sexual mores one way
or the other. . . If we are to remain inclusive, our position on sexual mores
needs to be mum.” – Nick Alimonos, https://writersdisease.net/2014/10/03/sex-marriage-and-morality/
“Since then I have been 'caught' so many times, but
mainly because I don't try to hide - I'm naked so what. In the earlier days, yes I absolutely did try
to hide and it just creates an awkward situation - implies you're doing
something else that people shouldn't see. . . people do drop in, and they have
seen me and just talk normally to me - so no offense or distress . . .” –
JMNude, http://www.naturist-corner.net/community/index.php?topic=22912.0;topicseen
“Children cannot be porn-proofed if a porno-prudish
view of the body is continually reinforced in the home by how we act, even if
the mindset is mentally and verbally renounced.
Parents can pass on a true family legacy of body acceptance only if they
practice it. In other words, nudity at
home should be routinely seen without ever being treated as obscene. . . Only
by keeping children grounded in the truth about the body can they walk in
freedom from the lie of porn” - Pastor David Hatton, https://www.truenudists.com/members/blogs/
“The first step to effectively educating textiles about
naturism is to understand how they think about it. . . This is how I believe
the chain goes, when a textile (Alice) catches another textile (Bob) in the
nude: (1) Alice sees a naked body, and is a bit surprised but realizes that
naked bodies do exist and are generally harmless. (2) Bob is completely embarrassed: Body
shame, bad luck of being naked at that moment, feeling vulnerable, whatever. Bob's life is changed forever, or so it
seems. (3) Alice feels guilty for
embarrassing Bob, conveys that she's very sorry. Both pretend that it never happened, and both
feel bad about it in separate ways.
Naturists have a different attitude in the second step: You've seen me
naked? Good! That means I don't have to get dressed next
time you come over...if that's OK? Since
the middle step is different, the final step should never happen. Why should Alice feel bad about seeing Bob
naked, if Bob didn't care at all about it?
Alice is not guilty of embarrassing Bob. . . A similar thing can be said
about meeting a hunter while freehiking . . . Getting textiles to not feel
guilty about seeing nudity would be a good step for general acceptance. . .
Maybe we're wrong about how we notify others?
The signs at Haulover warn ‘ATTENTION - BEYOND THIS POINT YOU MAY
ENCOUNTER NUDE BATHERS’. Perhaps the
right approach is something like ‘There's friendly naked people beyond this
sign, and we won't mind if you stop over and chat with us!’ – The Academic
Naturist
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